I'm writing this to basically let you all know how i feel about this topic. I'm quite concern about putting my thoughts into proper words. This is my first blog hope all the mistakes and errors maybe ignored :)
Now, about my topic that is why i chose this topic? well I've seen that without parents proper guidance a child is bad not only for the society but even for their parents. So is this all child's fault or all parents? Well, there is two chances i.e. If parents took their responsibilities seriously and fulfilled their duties then its the child's fault and vice versa. Fact of the matter is that both the parents (mom and dad) are responsible for a good child. But if one of them fails to do their duties well then the bad effect is on their children. The main problem we face that we lack good dads both in Asia and Middle East but there may vary in Europe that is 50% of both of them and so on. From a good dad i mean a dad that a child will look upon when he will grow up, he will consider him his role model. But alright that they get married but why bring children into this world when you aren't willing to take care of them?. Basic rights that includes food, shelter, education, and mostly the need of a child is love.. With great sorrow i write this that its even hard for some of the parents to give love to their children. Why is it so hard to show love?
For me showing love to the loved ones is not hard though an easy thing. But some of the parents when give birth to they child just usually think and say " okay we have a kid now and we might think about his future someday" .. But that appropriate day doesn't come in their lives. Fact is that some parents or a single parent gets all the thing at a time and can't handle their responsibilities and i know it isn't an easy job. And my question is that if you knew you couldn't get the job done then why did you agree on taking it?.
Some of you might have an answer to it, I've seen a few successful parents out there and i adore them.
but when parents fails to fulfill their duties or even to show love, a child's feelings gets destroyed and everything that he sees out there, when they see kids with good parents and it might hurt him so bad, breaks their dignity and never helps them in developing self-confidence. They gets depressed and lose all their talents and commits suicide or becomes bad people for the world. A child really needs both the parents support, care , love and if they fulfill their duties then they can become a good thing for the world, and are successful and useful.
Thank you for reading! Pls leave a comment (:
Now, about my topic that is why i chose this topic? well I've seen that without parents proper guidance a child is bad not only for the society but even for their parents. So is this all child's fault or all parents? Well, there is two chances i.e. If parents took their responsibilities seriously and fulfilled their duties then its the child's fault and vice versa. Fact of the matter is that both the parents (mom and dad) are responsible for a good child. But if one of them fails to do their duties well then the bad effect is on their children. The main problem we face that we lack good dads both in Asia and Middle East but there may vary in Europe that is 50% of both of them and so on. From a good dad i mean a dad that a child will look upon when he will grow up, he will consider him his role model. But alright that they get married but why bring children into this world when you aren't willing to take care of them?. Basic rights that includes food, shelter, education, and mostly the need of a child is love.. With great sorrow i write this that its even hard for some of the parents to give love to their children. Why is it so hard to show love?
For me showing love to the loved ones is not hard though an easy thing. But some of the parents when give birth to they child just usually think and say " okay we have a kid now and we might think about his future someday" .. But that appropriate day doesn't come in their lives. Fact is that some parents or a single parent gets all the thing at a time and can't handle their responsibilities and i know it isn't an easy job. And my question is that if you knew you couldn't get the job done then why did you agree on taking it?.
Some of you might have an answer to it, I've seen a few successful parents out there and i adore them.
but when parents fails to fulfill their duties or even to show love, a child's feelings gets destroyed and everything that he sees out there, when they see kids with good parents and it might hurt him so bad, breaks their dignity and never helps them in developing self-confidence. They gets depressed and lose all their talents and commits suicide or becomes bad people for the world. A child really needs both the parents support, care , love and if they fulfill their duties then they can become a good thing for the world, and are successful and useful.
Thank you for reading! Pls leave a comment (:
